Patrick Swayze’s widow remarried after late husband of 34 years visited her in her dreams to bless her union

In Dirty Dancing, Patrick Swayze, a much-loved performer, captivated the globe with his depiction as Johnny Castle.People continue to this day to mourn the great and renowned actor Patrick Swayze.

He was only 57 when he died of cancer in 2009, but his legacy endures.

Swayze enjoyed a successful career that included nominations for the Golden Globe and Academy Awards as well as a plaque on the Hollywood Walk of Fame.

Not to mention the fact that his romance with his wife Lisa Niemi reads like a Hollywood film script.In Houston, Texas, on August 18, 1952, Patrick Wayne Swayze was born.

Parents Patsy and Jesse Swayze raised him and his four siblings. Father Jesse worked as a chemical plant engineer draftsman, while mother Patsy was the director of the Houston Jazz Ballet Company.

Swayze became interested in dance at a young age. At a dance studio, his mother introduced him to ballet, and soon after, Swayze was smitten.

He was, however, frequently made fun of by his peers due to his love in dance. Swayze would end up having the last laugh and go on to become one of the greatest and brightest movie stars in history.

Patrick attended Waltrip High School in Houston, and in his yearbook, students referred to him as “Buddy Swayze”. Before he left the school in 1971, he participated in both football and theatre programs.

Swayze had begun to learn ballet by that point. At his mother’s dance studio, he had developed a profound affection for the dance form. He had no idea that there he would also run into the love of his life.

Patrick Swayze Lisa Niemi

At the Houston Jazz Ballet Company, Swayze spent a lot of time. He once encountered a girl in one of his mother’s classes who he simply could not look away from.

Lisa Niemi is her name.Patrick Swayze was a talented dancer before he finished high school. In New York City, he took dance lessons at the Joffrey Ballet School and the Harkness Ballet School.

As Prince Charming in Disney on Parade, he landed his first position. Soon after, he appeared on Broadway in the original production of Grease as Danny Zuko.Then, in 1979, Swayze received a brief role in Skatetown U.S.A., which served as his feature picture debut.

Two years later, he made his television debut in the venerable show MAS*H, playing a soldier battling leukemia. The Outsiders, directed by Francis Ford Coppola, starred him alongside Matt Dillon in 1983, giving Swayze’s career a welcome boost.

Swayze earned the part that would transform his life after appearing in six episodes of the television show North and South, putting him alongside some of the finest.Swayze enjoyed enormous popularity for his role as dance instructor Johnny Castle in the 1987 film Dirty Dancing.

The world has now witnessed many imitations of the legendary dance routines done alongside Baby (Jennifer Grey). Of course, the soundtrack continues to be noteworthy today.

The Time of My Life won both an Academy Award for Best Music, Original Song, and a Golden Globe in the “Best Original Song – Motion Picture” category.

Swayze, meanwhile, received a Golden Globe nomination for “Best Performance by an Actor in a Motion Picture – Comedy or Musical” in the same category. He did, however, receive the highest and most prestigious prize for audience popularity.

Swayze received a second Golden Globe nomination in 1990 for his performance as Sam Wheat in the popular film Ghost. Whoopi Goldberg and Demi Moore also starred in the movie, which went on to gross over $500 million worldwide.

Ghost reportedly became the highest-grossing film of 1990 and, at the time of its release, the third-highest-grossing film of all time, according to Box Office Mojo. It is the 93rd-highest grossing movie of all time as of 2015 after being adjusted for inflation.

Lisa Niemi first encountered Swayze when she was 18 years old and was 15 years old. She was taking lessons from Swayze’s mother, but it would take some time before their future romance truly took off.

“If I started putting on a pose or doing my Casanova routine, Lisa would turn away and not say anything,” Swayze told People. “We had a lot of dates in silence.”

Patrick understood that he had to keep her. She discovered she liked him as time passed. And so they started dating rather quickly.

“I knew she was the smartest chick I’d ever met. [Before Lisa] I had been meeting girls with names like “Mimi” and “Angel”. And for a long time, I didn’t feel like I deserved her,” Swayze explained.

Over time, Patrick and Lisa developed a close love. Nobody or anything could separate them. Not even the knowledge that Swayze will soon become a global icon could alter his feelings for her.

On June 12, 1975, the two got married. Lisa and Patrick’s union stood out in Hollywood, where many marriages don’t last very long.

It was a fairytale romance that was missing only one thing: Lisa and Patrick had no children.

Legendary TV host Barbara Walters didn’t need many words to describe Patrick and Lisa’s relationship. She’d met them many times, and said their relationship was “extraordinary”.

“The way he looked at her, the way he held on to her, the way she smiled., I can’t really imagine one without the other,” Walters said.

The awards and plaudits were likely great fun for Swayze. Sadly, though, that same year, he and his beloved wife Lisa had experienced a tragedy.

Since the very day they got married, Swayze and Niemi longed to start a family. They were euphoric when Lisa became pregnant. Their joy turned to devastation, though, when she miscarried.

“It broke his heart. He wanted to be a dad more than anything. He had skills, knowledge, kindness, and love – everything a child would want,” Swayze’s long-time friend and bodyguard Frank Whiteley said.

“I was born to be a dad,” Swayze mentioned. As the years passed, Lisa realized she was getting too old to have a child. So instead, Niemi asked her husband if he would consider adoption.

“I had been seeing an acupuncturist for a long time, and then all of a sudden I was too old,” Lisa revealed in the Paramount Network documentary, I Am Patrick Swayze, in August 2019 and continued:

“I probably should have been better informed about to go about it, but anyway I may have wasted some time. But you know I said ‘you know, how would you feel about adopting?’ He got very teary-eyed and he said ‘I want to have children with you.’”

“Patrick very much wanted to be a father because I think he wanted to be as good a father to his child as his dad had been to him,” his manager, Kate Edwards, later said in the documentary.

Don Swayze, Patrick’s brother, also provided some tragic insight into the movie star’s fervent desire to become a father.

“You could tell he would have been a great dad, Just as an uncle you could see it, you could see the amazing dad he would be,” Don revealed. ” … He would have never wanted Lisa feeling bad for having miscarriages, but it crushed him, so they tried.”

Of course, Patrick Swayze’s inability to become a father was a major setback. But his career kept advancing. In August 1991, he was crowned the “Sexiest Man Alive” by People Magazine. Then, in 1997, for his service to the film industry, he received the distinguished honor of a star on the Hollywood Walk of Fame.

The actor’s stellar performances in Ghost and Dirty Dancing propelled him to popularity. He is a balletically athletic performer. The 1990s, meanwhile, weren’t kind to him.

Following his great success, Patrick Swayze starred in films like City of Joy (1992), Tale Tale (1995), Black Dog (1998) among others.

Swayze, however, changed his acting career after his performances were not well accepted by critics and spectators.
The Dirty Dancing star went to Broadway so that she wouldn’t have to perform only for moviegoers in a theater.

In 2003, he was the replacement as the lead role of “Billy Flynn” in the revival of the musical Chicago. The production toured the United States, playing all over the country.

Fate might have also seen a return to Dirty Dancing for Patrick, as well. According to IMDB, he turned down $6 million to do a sequel of the beloved movie.

For him, though, fame didn’t matter. Patrick Swayze and Lisa Niemi considered their love for each other the most important thing. Tragically, their story was to end in mourning.

Late in 2007, Patrick Swayze received a Stage 4 pancreatic cancer diagnosis. The actor told Access Online that on New Year’s Eve of 2008, he became aware of changes in his physique. According to him, he “dropped about 20 pounds in the blink of an eye.”

For Lisa, it was one of the toughest things to ever hear.

“For the first few weeks, it was like being in a nightmare you couldn’t wake up from,” she told Access Online in January of 2009.

Swayze, a life-long heavy smoker, was treated at the Stanford University by Dr. George A. Fisher. It was serious. But Swayze wouldn’t quit working, or smoking.

“I’ve seriously cut down,” Patrick told Barbara Walters. “I was one of those dumb ones that started back in the Marlborough Man days whose — you know, it was cool. I’m a cowboy. But I’ll tell you one thing. I will talk so hard core against, against smoking for kids. That’s one reason I’ve never smoked in front of children.”

He starred in 13 episodes of the TV series The Beast, which was filmed over at least 12-hour days.

“I think everybody thought I was out of my mind, you know, thinking I’m gonna pull off a TV show,” Swayze said.


Yet, according to his doctor, that wasn’t the case. Instead, he saw it as “quite an accomplishment” that Swayze survived as long as two years with the condition.

“I think at the point that one is already diagnosed with cancer, there’s little additional harm in it,” Dr. Fisher said. “And if it — it seems to provide him some comfort or partly identity of who he is, I certainly have no objections to that.”

Patrick gave his mother a house before he passed away, and his wife Lisa continued to send her a monthly allowance.

He bequeathed his wife a fortune worth $40 million. Swayze’s family would once more turn to Lisa in a furious manner when it was claimed that she had sold some of his automobiles and his Dirty Dancing leather jacket on E-Bay.

“These were family heirlooms. It’s a slap in the face that she’s selling these precious memories,” his niece Danielle Swayze said.

“No matter what, it’s still a letting go. There’s always a little bit of loss associated with that,” Lisa explained. “While it’s a very positive thing to do, it’s a difficult thing to do. I’m such a lucky woman to have had a man who loved me as much as Patrick did.” 

In 2014, Lisa Niemi took – as she said – ”a leap of faith” when she married jeweler Albert DePriscan, whom she met through mutual friends.

Lisa wasn’t accustomed to experiencing love; as a result, she suddenly experienced a “sick feeling, butterfly stomach, rubbery legs, and diminished mental capacity.”However, she also grappled with her feelings about being married again after Patrick. But she adored Albert, and he is aware of her unwavering devotion to her first spouse.

”Albert knew I still loved Patrick and would always love him, and told me, ‘and I know you love me, and I love you.’ How could I not marry this man?,” Lisa explained:

”As I had time to process the change my life was going to take, my doubts became less and less, and I became more and more sure.”

Lisa had dreams about Swayze right before she wed DePriscan. She saw it as him attempting to communicate with her from another perspective.

She said: “About a month and a half ago, I had a dream about Patrick. It was like he was giving me his blessing and letting me know it was okay.”

Lisa still expresses her affection for her late husband Patrick Swayze nowadays.On the eleventh anniversary of his demise in September 2020, she sent a touching text and a lovely photo to Instagram.

Celebrating a wonderfully strong, sensitive & special man on the 11th anniversary of his passing. So missed. Can’t help but feel a dark cloud today (and all last week!), but grateful for what we had together. What a journey! Blessed, even with the tears”, Lisa wrote.

We will always hold a special place in our hearts for Patrick Swayze. In addition to being a terrific actor and dancer, he was also a lovely husband and person.

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